Children’s Lessons

CJ, a 46-year-old architect came for a session. His 70-year-old mother, RJ, accompanied him. CJ’s face had open wounds from falling. They came straight from the hospital after dressing.

His mom came inside and made sure he was comfortable on the recliner, “Beta, call me when the session gets over. I will have you picked up.”

CJ was suffering due to excessive drinking. His wife had thrown him out of the house several times and that’s when he would go to his parents’ place to stay. Last when he drank too much he had this fall. Throughout the session he avoided eye contact with me.

 

mother and sonHe saw his past life and understood why he felt this restlessness in his current life. SC healed him and addressed his issues with alcohol and gave instructions how to deal with them.

Couple of days later his mom calls me:

“Lipa, he is still drinking. Every time he does something like this I have to apologize to his wife. You see I’m over 70 now. I have high BP and diabetes. Should I ask him to get in touch with you again?”

I told her there as no need for him to come again. “But when he gets sober please ask him to keep listening to the audiotape of the session. It has everything. He has to listen and follow instructions.”

Just at that moment I looked down at my notebook- one of Dolores Cannon’s advice on children was staring back at me. I knew the universe wanted me to say this to her:

“RJ, don’t carry your children around your back. It will only make you sick. Don’t take your children’s lessons away from them. They are going to get hurt. They are going to make mistakes. That’s life.”

There was a hush… It was an “aha” moment for her.

She said, “Hmmm…. I hear you… Thank you!”

 

Beauty and Body Image

“Why is it so important for me to be a radiant, glowing, fulfilled, spiritual, beautiful woman, owning all her power?”

Chloe, a 33-year-old French woman came to me for a past life regression therapy session. She grew up in Rouen, in France but never liked that place.

While she worked at a fashion house in Paris she visited India several times and then later she decided to move here. Through her contacts in the fashion world she started an e-commerce business selling organic women’s fashion clothing.

She’s been living in a spiritual community in Kerala now, a safe protected place- living a healthier lifestyle and a regular spiritual practice.

Yet she hated herself for being overweight and felt very ugly. She would binge on desserts and chocolates. Her boyfriend didn’t make her feel happy. Her online biz hasn’t taken off. She felt a lot of fear. She felt her parents were busy when she was growing up and didn’t give her love.

Through her trance she saw many different forms and beings that she has previously been- full of light and joy. Here are some of her questions she had for the higher self.

  1. Why did she put on weight?

It comes from a different lifetime. It does not belong to her. It was meant to cope with a situation, but now it’s over. Now that she is connecting with me, I’m here to guide her. She is on track. She had to experience it to know how it feels on others. That’s why I put that on her journey but there is nothing to worry about. It does not belong to her. Now she’s asked me and I have taken care of it. It’s over. Her eating disorder is over. She didn’t do anything wrong. Now it’s over.

  1. Why is her body image is so important to her?

Because beauty is Divine; and she is a piece of the divine. She is here to manifest beauty. By taking care of herself, from eating well, moving well, being happy, to loving without fear, to being confident and making herself pretty. And then I’m going to bring everything to her. We have started the journey today. Her work is to smile and be happy. She’s not alone. She will never be alone. I’m always with her.

  1. Why is she ashamed to see herself in a picture?

Because she does not have the knowledge of who she is! She has to watch herself in the mirror and say, “I am Chloe. I am beautiful. I am who I am. And I’m proud of who I am.”

  1. What would have happened if she shone her light?

I can feel all my cells of my body – she is going to feel as light. And she will be flying. She will be like the goddess of her life. She will be so light on everything – physically and emotionally and mentally. She will be able to manifest whatever she wants. And then when her confidence is back she can have everything. She can be everything. She is here in this life to enjoy every single moment and everything will be given to her. She is a diamond but she’s still wearing a suit of a stone.

  1. Why is she suffering from constipation?

Because she’s full of fears: She fears to know if she’s worthy of all the gifts and all the beauty that I have for her.

  1. How can she feel more worthy of herself?

I’m going to guide her and help her. When a situation is about to come, I will support her with worthiness.

  1. Why doesn’t she feel loved and celebrated with her boyfriend?

Because she’s not loving herself and celebrating herself!

  1. What’s the purpose of her life?

To be happy- to give love and receive love. And to experience the light.

  1. Why is it so important for her to be a radiant, glowing, fulfilled, spiritual, beautiful woman, owning all her power?

Because she came on earth in this life to be all that- her own version of the Goddess, that’s the way she’s going to help people and as soon as she wears a Goddess suit, and when she puts her treasure back in her heart centre (apparently she has her gifts on the side pocket) she will attract the right people. Things will expand very fast & very easily. She’s here for abundance.

Goddess

“My parents hated me!”

PT, 37, broke down when she started talking about her childhood. Her mother didn’t express any love or affection towards her while she looked after her other younger brother and sister well. She said she was barely given any food; often it was stale food she had to contend with. Her father chose to keep quiet which gave her mother a tacit approval to continue to be the way she was. PT was given many chores and was yelled at for everything she did. As a little girl in school her hair was full of lice and she was hungry all the time. She was too sad! Now the sadness had grown into a big lump in her chest. She has problems dealing with people at home and at work.

PT saw in a previous lifetime she was a highly successful lawyer. She was very powerful and had a control over people, which she thoroughly enjoyed.

Lipa: Why is she suffering like this now?

Higher Self/SC: She knows why! In that lifetime as a successful lawyer she contested against her parents, who were criminals in that life time. She used all her power to give them the hardest punishment she could.

L: And then?

SC: After that lifetime was over, when she went to the spirit side her soul realized/felt that she was too hard on them. The punishment that was decreed on the criminals (her parents in the current life) was way too severe for the acts they did.

So she decided that in order to bring balance in her soul she had to punish herself and she chose them as her parents.

L: Oh, I see why she has been punishing herself all her life. How can we help her today?

SC: We can help her to let go of the pain in her chest today. She doesn’t need that.

L: Oh, that will be good. She would feel so unburdened. I’m told we get to choose our parents. Please tell me then, why did she choose to have these two as her parents?

SC: Yes, you get to choose that. But this time she was given only two choice: either these two as parents, or come as an orphan. She chose them. But you see you are never stranded in suffering. You can pray and ask, and be open.

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Depression

Gallbladder stones and lungs infection:

DS, 38, from Kanpur, had been planning to come for a Past Life Regression therapy through a QHHT session since the past one year. He frantically called me one day to have a session- if he could “avoid going through gallbladder surgery to remove stones”- knowing how all-powerful the higher self/SC is!

DS has a business for the last 10 years that requires him to work during the nighttime. His cough started when he began his new business and now both the lungs are severely affected. Medicines have temporary relief. But he felt there was something more.

DS has been a very kind hearted man. He finances all the medical expenses of his parents. He made sure both his brothers settled in their businesses, got his sister married, took care of his youngest brother who is a specially-abled child and still feels bad that he could have given better medical and educational support to him.

Lipa – What is causing the stones in his gallbladder?

SC- He has been working against his body clock for many years now.

L- How can he be helped now?

SC- He has to go through the surgery. Can’t be healed today (during the session).

L- What about his lungs infection?

SC- (Laughs) He just saw that lifetime when died very old, suffering from lung infection. His wife had passed away long time ago. His only daughter was married off in another village. There was no one to take him to a vaid (doctor). He died coughing and crying to be taken to a hospital. The cough originates from that time.

L- Is it serving any purpose?

SC- No, it’s a baggage he is carrying around for a long time.

There was silence.

L- What’s happening?

SC- (chuckles) We are turning his lungs pink.

L- Can he feel that?

SC- Oh yes!! He will feel a difference from now on. And Lipa, you are doing an extraordinary job. It has helped him a lot today.

L- Thank you. 😊 Tell me why does he feel the need to help his family so much?

SC- Hmmm… while he was suffering in his previous life, he longed to be a part of a bigger family. He swore to himself that he would never allow anyone to suffer. But now he has done enough for the family- he can’t help them more.

L- Which means suffering has a meaning, right?

SC- Oh yes, that is the reason he suffered- to find meaning, to grow in his soul, to share more, to embrace more. You see pain and happiness are in juxtaposition to help the soul ascend. Transcendence- that’s the only goal of the soul. And we help, when asked for help. 💜

Past-life oath~ can’t say NO

SM was a very successful corp exec in the pharmaceutical segment at Mumbai. She had effortlessly climbed up the ladder and gave away a lot of money to whoever needed. She felt she was here to help people. She couldn’t refuse anyone.

She quit her well-paying job and started her an online start-up business with some friends. She hired another friend as the CEO, and that’s when things started hurting: She found that she could not say no to the CEO. She felt compelled to give in to all his requests. She could clearly see that he was manipulating and extracting money from her, but she was unable to stop herself.

She loaned money to fulfill his demands. He would ask her for money for his wife’s medical treatment. Then she would find his photos on social media vacationing with his family at exotic locations.

In a previous life SM saw that she was a very capable princess. But her father gave away the responsibility to govern the kingdom to her incompetent younger brother. He made a complete mess, people starved and died in the process.

I asked SC why couldn’t she stop herself from helping people who are using her?- “She had taken an oath, that’s troubling her.”

What oath? When?– “When she saw people dying in her kingdom in her past life, she took an oath to help them.”

Is that oath helping her now? – “No.”

What’s the way out?– “She was supposed to have come to you a year ago. She needs to understand that she should use her discernment to help people.”

How can you help her with that?– “We will remove the oath. She will feel less burdened and make better choices.” 💜

Oath

Marijuana – just one time

My client, Ajay, a 30, works in advertising. He has been very depressed and disturbed for couple of years. He takes a vodka shot every night to get some sleep. I insist on having no alcohol the day before the QHHT session. He can’t let go of it even for a day.

Five years ago a school friend got him a “packet”. He could not remember anything that followed after he consumed marijuana on that fateful day. His memory was totally wiped out about the sequence of the event that led to his smoking. Except that he remembered feeling disturbed and heavy since then. He has been under psychiatric treatment.

He wanted to discover what happened that day. He was curious to see if he could recover the memory of that incident and heal from the heaviness he felt all the time.

I knew he would be able to discover the details of the missing event in the trance once he learned to relax. So we went ahead.

Ajay descended into that very day on 2013. It was Janmasthami. He woke up in the morning looking for the “stuff” his friend had left behind. He found it in his closet. He rolled it carefully and smoked. After a while he felt very uneasy. He went out for a walk and called his friend who got him the stuff. He came back home and asked another friend to help him out and take him to the hospital, but the friend asked him to go back to sleep.

One by one everything kept coming back. He realized that when he puffed marijuana he got a panic attack- because that was an auspicious day of Janmasthami. He felt he had made a BIG blunder. That made him feel like a sinner. It was Lord Krishna’s day, celebrated as a sacred event. His folks worshipped the lord and somewhere instilled very strong values of right and wrong. “Paapi hoon mein” echoed from within!

His belief system could not excuse his behavior. He needed to punish himself. And hence it took form of panic attack, of course unconsciously.

I told him the Lord was present during the session and could see Him standing. Ajay did not doubt. Later when he woke up he told me that he saw Lord Krishna in the room and he knelt before him. He received a deep blessing in his heart – so much love and acceptance! That moment he felt the Lord had forgiven him for his “wrong-doing” and it was okay. Also made him understand that it was time for him to let go and not punish himself any more. He could unchain himself from misery.

Lot of people ask me, “So they get completely over with a wrong habit?”

Well, the session makes them become lighter and gives them a choice. I also reiterate that when you don’t have a very strong will power and determination to bring change from within, then at least choose an environment that would support your new way of life. And bring them to list those choices.

behavioural-activation

 

Misuse of Power #Metoo

Did I have a #Metoo moment in the Corporate HR world? Yes! If you call someone hitting on you persistently to tempt you with a “fat deal”, then the answer is yes!

I felt a deep shame that some of these people were from my “Obrah” (Oriya Brahmin/extended) community! They felt their brazen act outside of the state was okay. It’s extremely disgusting when you see these big-time so called HR honchos “suggesting” directly or in a clandestine manner.

I ask myself why am I saying this on social media? What do I gain?

The reason is: being a mother/an aunt to the younger generation how do I contribute to understand what is character and how we can reform!

Certainly these men, despite their outward success felt inadequate. They lacked something for which they needed to be secretly gratified. They may have been made to feel small and hence powerless- not good about themselves! So at the slightest opportunity they were ready to misuse their power, in order to feel powerful again.

So it all comes down to understanding our personal power- and the use and misuse of it.

I also happened to experience the contrast. While I was going through a really bad phase in my life, living alone, emotionally lost and vulnerable, I met this man from my “Obrah” community. After dinner he dropped me home, hugged me and kissed me on my forehead and left.

He used his power. And used it wisely. A sense of control over yourself- that is true power. That discrimination makes you a man, a human. Otherwise you are equal to an animal.

As responsible human beings we always have a choice to act or react to use our voice. And hence I’m using mine.

I’m completely with each one of you who has been a victim of #Metoo. I hope there’s more transparency in making these “deals” in the future.

But I have decided to take this stand. Over the years I have worked at having compassion for myself and I have, to a large extend, forgiven those who acted like predators. I will not to bring myself down to expose them.

Sadly, you can’t run away from yourself! Today they are all scared and taking pills to suppress their stress anyway. It takes courage to do the right thing. And to do the right thing is not always easy. But it pays in the long run.